The Spider & The Blue-Throated God – Part 2/2


Did I go from being a neurotic worrier to a goddess radiating mega-rays of tranquillity in a few short weeks? Sorry, but this ain’t no fairy tale. The sad truth is that I was born with a depressive gene: to see a glass as half-full instead of half-empty can still often be for me a true labor of Hercules. But by putting a positive spin on my life, my fears shrank, my vision cleared, and I could move forward with increasing confidence. Still, there were many times since that I found myself embroiled in situations so dark I could not find a single reason to be grateful.

One such nightmare saw me trapped me in a guesthouse in Rishikesh during the Neelkanth Mahadev temple festival that annually draws close to half a million rambunctious rural devotees down from their villages to worship Lord Shiva. The temple is surrounded by dense forest and is adjacent to the Nar-Narayan mountain ranges. Hindu myth claims it was here that Lord Shiva consumed the poison Halahala that originated from the ocean when the Gods and the Demons churned the deep waters in order to obtain Amrita, the nectar of immortality. To save creation, Shiva swallowed this poison, which turned his throat blue — which is why he is known as Nilkanth, literally The Blue Throated One.

News of how rapidly these devotees could turn spectacular Rishikesh into a virtual cesspool spread like wildfire. Friends I’d been hanging out with during the winter months fled, but I’d just bought a duplex apartment on the other side of the Ganga and staunchly decided to stick around while it was being renovated. (I had long since sold the house in south India and moved up north).

Those of you who know Rishikesh will remember the two narrow bridges — Ram Jhula and Laxman Jhula — that separate the two halves of town. Swaying ribbons of wood, these old-fashioned bridges hang over the turquoise and emerald waters of Mother Ganga; during festival times, they are packed tight with tourists and virtually impossible to traverse.

The morning after the start of the great festival, I awoke to nagging body pains and found myself unable to move my neck. Exhausted, I lay in bed until afternoon. A local trekking guide dropped in for a chat. I showed him the swelling behind my ear. “Oh ho, Mira-ji, that’s a bad spider bite,” he said authoritatively. He pointed to a gigantic black spider crouched on the bottom of my window pane. “See? That must be the villain right there. Just rest for a few days and drink plenty of good water.”

Since I avoid allopaths, preferring to let time and yogic remedies do their work, I decided to stick it out in my guest room. But the infection only got worse and worse until my entire stomach area was a tender mass of screaming pain and I could barely summon up the energy to get out of bed.

I begged a friend who lived in Rishikesh to arrange for a doctor to visit me. The pain in my intestines was impossible to describe, I whispered weakly; I could not eat or drink and had no one else to turn to. The doctor arrived. When he heard me moaning in agony, he pushed some antibiotics on me, collected his fee, and rushed away before I could ask him to move me to a hospital. Later my trekking pal told me the good doctor had fled because he feared I’d die in that room; apparently he had not wanted to get embroiled in a messy police case. So much for the Hippocratic Oath, in this case, the Hypocritical Oath.


My trekker friend arrived on his bike next morning and saw I was on the verge of extinction. He carried me down the stairs, literally tied me to the back of his bike, and drove me along that crazily swaying bridge, through thousands of crazy revelers, and to the hospital in town. There the female doctor took one look at me and ordered me into Intensive Care. Terrified, I called a close friend who lived in Chandigarh, a seven hour drive away. “You check into that place, Mira, and that’ll be the end of you, she said bluntly. “Come to Chandigarh right now — I’ll take care of everything.”

Two men at the hospital found a taxi for me while the doctor gave me a pain shot she promised would last for seven hours. It did not work. The taxi driver must have cursed himself for taking me on, for I kept groaning as outrageous pains knifed through my intestines. That drive was beyond nightmarish; fortunately I blacked out from time to time.

We made it to Chandigarh, but my agony did not end there: not one of those renowned medical specialists had the guts or the common sense to have me cleaned out from the inside. Could they cure me, I cried? Glucose drip, they murmured, sophisticated scans, they suggested, a few months of bed rest, they advised, but I could feel Death’s cold breath on my neck.

I begged God not to let me go this way. I had so much to do, I cried, please let me die with some dignity. Towards dawn I heard a voice whisper to me: get an enema, now! I woke my friend and coaxed her to send me a doctor and nurse immediately. I had the enema, which started the process of removing the poisons that had been clogging my intestine, and entered the tortuous road to recovery.

After the crisis was over, I was amazed to find so much I could be grateful for: higher power had ensured my survival against all odds; my trekking guide friend had cared enough to drive me to the hospital across that teeming city; the taxi driver himself — who must have gotten royally smashed on arrack after that horrific journey — had carried me safely from Rishikesh to Chandigarh; a loving friend had taken on the huge responsibility for my care; her friend had loaned me her gorgeous home to recover; the nurse who’d administered that healing enema…etcetera etcetera.

As time passed and I regained my health and my spirits, it also became clear to me that I’d chosen this brutal episode to burn some heavy-duty karma. Chosen, you ask? Yes, because I believe we souls choose the circumstances of our lives on earth in order to transcend duality and to return to the source of both manifest and unmanifest.

In his book Enlightened Courage: An Explanation of the Seven-Point Mind Training, Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche, a powerful Tibetan Buddhist teacher, says:

No one knows when, or how, death will come. Bubbles form on the surface of the water, but the next instant they are gone; they do not stay. It is just the same with this precious human body that we have managed to find. We take all the time in the world before engaging in spiritual practice, but who knows when this life of ours will simply cease to be?

Today I make it a daily practice to be grateful for all the circumstances of my life. Via the ancient wisdom tool of Vichara, or Self-investigation, I choose to meditate on my true nature — which, according to eastern philosophy, is pure existence, consciousness and  bliss. As I do so, I feel the patch-work identity of egoic body and mind that has caused all my suffering begin to dissolve; and a sweet joy arises with the knowledge that if I persevere in my inward quest, one day I shall merge fully into that exquisite peace surpassing all human understanding.

Continued from Part 1

If you’ve enjoyed reading my posts, please also check out my BOOKS.

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Click the buttons below to SHARE if you liked this post.
Note: The REBLOG option is available only when viewing the post in full. Click on the post-title above if don’t see the REBLOG button below.

14 thoughts on “The Spider & The Blue-Throated God – Part 2/2

  1. Great piece Mira. How are you. I unfortunately had a small heart attack in June — recovering though. I think I will write down the 5 things I am grateful for every day.

    • Kami, so sorry to hear about your heart attack…wow….must be quite something to have something so central to your body go haywire. I hope you recover soon — and make a gratitude list a big part of that recovery. Lots of love and stay close, Mira

  2. Oh, gosh, Mira! Glad you made it through that incredible ordeal! Amazing impermance. So glad you are well… Much love, Susan

  3. Dear Mira, really enjoyed reading this! Looking forward to your next story.
    I’m in Swedenwith family right now, see you later in India!

    • Kerstin! I wondered where you had gone – i used to see you regularly at the Ashram — well, come back soon! Love, Mira (PS: and FOLLOW this blog so you get regular notifications even while you are away).

  4. Thank you, Mira, for sharing your path and the lessons you are learning along the way with such honesty and humility. Plus, you have such a special capacity to articulate your experience that makes it come alive for others. It is a valuable service that you are offering. I’m adding my friendship with you to my gratitude list!

    • The fact that we have stayed close for over two decades is something that makes me truly grateful too, Swamiji! If you had not opened my third eye with the simple beauty of the Bhagavad Gita so long ago in Manhattan…who knows…..lots of love!

  5. I always look forward to your stories. They are inspiring, funny, profound – always something to learn and ponder and yes remember to be grateful. I get so engrossed in your stories, it is as if it is happening to me. Love them. I do thank you beautiful one of Light.

    • Antoinette, God did something very right when you were born. Much love, your always encouraging words feel like they come from you heart and they pierce mine with sweetness. Love!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s